Last year after Christmas, I wrote a list of things to remember for this Christmas.
Today I pulled it out to remind myself what to watch out for this Christmas:
1. Don’t get sucked into the world’s view of Christmas. Christmas will never be cinema-land perfect and trying to make it that way will just end up making you feel exhausted and disappointed.
2. Don’t over decorate. Just because it looks Christmasy, doesn’t mean it needs to be displayed.
3. Don’t overeat. Have a plan for getting through the holidays without gaining weight.
4. Remember “stuff” fades, memories last.
5. Some people won’t have a gift to unwrap at Christmas. Think about who they are and give them a wrapped gift.
6. Some people need groceries. Put a bag on someone’s porch or place a grocery store gift card in their mailbox anonymously.
7. Give people fruit, a waffle mix, a chicken pot pie or some new dish towels instead of sugary treats.
8. Remember that on Christmas morning, there will be a lot of crumpled wrapping paper, empty boxes, and ribbons and a few small piles of what, in the end, is just stuff. Everyone will take their stuff, assimilate it with their other stuff, and it will become ordinary in a matter of minutes. What will linger will be the moments of closeness, laughter, and the time we took to remember why we celebrate Christmas in the first place.
One of my favorites was from my friend Sara, who I’ve always admired
because she and her husband consistently work on strengthening their marriage.
She said, “Just wait until your 40th anniversary and you have been empty nesters for years. All those little habits become more and more evident and yet our capacity to ignore the trivia and love the person continues to increase.”
I love the idea that the longer we’re married our capacity to overlook each other’s habits and our ability to love each other increases.
Inspiring news from a woman who knows.
Now, about the pillows — ‘Mr. Right, and Mrs. Always Right.”
Some of you wanted to know how to buy them.
I found the photo on my favorite website pinterest.com, and should apologize for not crediting it!
Just remember the rule if you go to pinterest:
Get in, Get out.
I’ve warned you before that if you don’t, you’ll be lost in pinterest land forever.
Then when you finally look up from your computer
you’ll wonder where your life went.
I did a little searching for how to buy the pillows and made a couple of discoveries.
First, you can buy the linen pillows that I pictured on my last blog at etsy.com in the “yellowbugboutique.”